I’m not saying I’m perfect, because it took me time to get
to where I am. But I thank God for where I am today. I see a lot of women
these days that have lost love and respect for themselves. And no wonder some
men don’t feel the need of trying to respect women no more. Women value
themselves less, will do anything for money and will allow men to disrespect
them.
If you saw me before and the kind of relationship I was in,
you would have slapped me. I allowed a man to put me second all the time, I put
him before my career, and I would give him all I had. I would cook for him;
give him money even though I knew he was with another woman. Hoping that
one day it would be me he would pick. And guess what? I was never chosen. And
when I got the courage to finally leave him that’s when he saw my worth. And I
realized I had to see mine first before he saw it.
I use to let people disrespect me, talk to me however they
wanted to. Especially in the music industry as I was trying to come up, guys
would talk to me so down making me feel like I’m nothing and can’t make it. But
I thank God for my best friend she taught how to love myself first how to work
hard and not allowing anyone put me down. I still cry up to date but I don’t
let anyone talk to me how they want whether it makes people afraid to approach
me or not. I still want RESPECT.
God created a woman to guide a man. We are their backbone,
and you need to let a man know he can count on you. It’s ok to love a man. We
are meant to. And we can be the best at treating them, a good woman knows
how to. But if he doesn’t respect you back, leave! Focus on yourself. A
man should never make you put him before your career and goals. You shouldn’t
spend time and energy on fighting for a man. Because if he is yours he will
always be there and if he truly loves you he will encourage you and support you
on your career. Also women need to stop seeing the need of using men to get
money. Get the need of working hard and getting your own. You selling your body
to get money from men so that you can get the latest clothes and jewelry is the
worst thing a woman can do. These days a lot of young women are doing that and
it’s very sad how some women let materialistic thing come before their respect
and pride. Women need to depend on themselves more and stop looking for the
easiest way out to get money.
When I look at women such as my best friend Emmanuella and
size 8, they remind me so much of me. Such hard working and independent
women and yet they have all the love that can go around the world. They
inspire me so much because that’s how a woman should be. Women need to know
that they are everything. That’s the only secret they need to posses. And once
they do, they will know what it means to be a woman.
now i know why you like using that word, "power"
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